I Promise

I promise not to run around chasing love, because I am love. I promise to spread love and passion wherever I go and in whatever I do. My heart is my guide, my roadmap and true north. "Love begets love and what you give out is what you get back." I promise you baby to be love.

I promise that although I found soul food in the poetic love dance of our souls, and that I do want you again and again, I do not need you to experience the everlasting beatitude of love, lovers and lovemaking.

I promise that I know love is beautiful but not always rational, and there is no reason for us not to be able to live without one another. It is yet again time for another change, as I transform from this cracked cocoon to a majestic butterfly. I promise to take this magnificence and soar high on the new-found wings of love and freedom. Tasting the sweet breath of love in each and every honeyed encounter, basking in fevered lovers embraces. I promise to always be that wild woman with passion that flows through her entire being, an unquenchable thirst for knowledge, experience, adventure and wanderlust in her heart and soul. I promise to keep my fire lit. I promise to be the inspiration for poetry from the soul. 

I promise to listen to the whisper of the moon as I dance naked in the rain. I promise to bask in the warmth of the sun's resplendent glow, letting the wind caress my cheek as if it were a soft lovers touch. I promise you baby that I know love. 

I promise to make a thousand or more mistakes along the way but I will not be anything less than the passionate lover that you know, staying true to me. I promise to never change to fit in with the "norm" because I am a far cry from normal, not anything less than strange. I promise that we won't always agree and there will be conflict but that's okay, its growth for our souls. I promise that I will never become boring or just mediocre that's just not me. 

I promise to be as passionate and wild as always, if not more so in my encounters with new lovers. Nakedness intertwined in a passionate  embrace between souls, hearts connecting as we bathe in that ethereal flow of fulfillment with every heated stroke. I promise you that the magic of our bodies touching for the first time initiating fiery sparks, which threatened to consume all around us will always be the same between us, again and again. Our fire shall never die. 

 I promise you that I will never be good at being controlled by my hearts deepest desire or longing for what is no good for me. I will run from this "control" naked and baring my soul to grasp my freedom. I promise you baby that our love will never die.

I promise that I will stay on course in adventures as I choose from and  taste the sweet fruits from the tree of love, exploring the kingdom of new lovers. I promise that I won't say I'll love you forever because this is a desperate promise of young lovers who haven't been calloused by the honesty which only age and experience can inspire. I promise you baby that I am love. 

I promise to accept the choices we have made together even if I don't like them. I appreciate freedom and accept that which I cannot change. I promise not to accept the lameness of pathetic excuses, but I do and always will accept the integrity which comes from honesty and truth. I promise to always respect the truth. I promise that there isn't anything that I can't overcome, because I know love and I am love.

I promise not to hang on to the memories of our love, I release us to be free. I promise that I love you enough to let you go in happiness. I promise to let you be you and to let me be me choosing this time to set us free.

I promise you baby that I set us free.

11/2015

© DHouseholder

B.O.O.K.S.

I took this photo in a little gem of a bookstore when I was visiting family on the East coast. 

The little piece down below was something that I had found in one of the many books required for English class at one time or another, but the problem is I don't know who the author is. It's a perfect companion for my photo though, so enjoy.

"Books are incredible technoligical breakthrough of their time. The clever design, simple setup, and ease of use will cause revolutionary breakthroughs and is sure to last through the ever changing advancement in technology. Books are sleek, simple and portable with no wiring, no batteries and no circuits to deal with. Designed for ease of use, even a small child can operate it, just pick it up and lift the cover to open a new world of adventure and creativity. Light compact and so portable a it can be used virtually anywhere, inside, outside by the fireplace in a recliner and even at the doctors office. It's being called the entertainment wave of the future, just open it  and begin. There are no special set up or services required and it can be picked up at anytime and used -- all that is neccessary is opening it up. Sounds too simple you say? Too good to be true? Well it is an incredible product I tell you and you will never regret purchasing one. Due to the simplicity of its design it will never crash and will never need to be rebooted. To access the handy browse feature all that is necessary is turning the page which you can use to move forward and then back to the begining again. Simplicity at it's finest! Books also come with a handy index feature which is typically within the first few pages and this can be used to pinpoint the pages where information can be reviewed, also there are no limits to the number of times you can access the information and most importantly no time limits.  Notations and personal notes can also be made next to book entries for later retrieval. Personal notes can be made by using a handy  programming tool called the "Portable Erasable Nib Criptic Intercommunication Language Stylus typically called Pencils."   The Book and its programming tool the Pencil will surely be around for many generations to come. Having been dispensed worldwide already, will this be the end of the personal comuputer?" ~author unknown

Spider Totems

Spider Totems

Spiders are very delicate creatures that play an important role in the myths and lore of many peoples as the teacher of balance between the past and future, the physical and spiritual.

To the Native Americans, Spider is Grandmother, the link to the past and future. In India it's associated with Maya, the weaver of illusions.

With its gentle strength, Spider spins together the threads of life with intricate webs.

Spider knows that the past affects the future and vise versa. It calls us to make use of our creativity and weave our dreams into our destiny.

For many Native Americans, "spider woman" stories are important creation mythologies. One of the common feature of those are wisdom symbolized with spiders' webs (for example, she taught the human how to weave). Also generally accepted are the ideas that her "thread" connects the human world and the world of spirits or the "above world" and the "below world". Spider Woman also weaves the "relationship" of the Web of Life and all beings.

"In the beginning, there was the dark purple light at the dawn of being. Spider Woman spun a line to form the east, west, north, and south. Breath entered man at the time of the yellow light. At the time of the red light, man proudly faced his creator. Spider Woman used the clay of the earth, red, yellow, white, and black, to create people. To each she attached a thread of her web which came from the doorway at the top of her head. This thread was the gift of creative wisdom. Three times she sent a great flood to destroy those who had forgotten the gift of her thread. Those who remembered floated to the new world and climbed to safety through the Sipapu Pole the womb of Mother Earth."

Thank a Veteran

                     Time Life Magazine 1966

Veterans Day is a day set aside for us to honor the men and the women who bravely serve our country both past and present. Those who protect us, defend us and go above and beyond to ensure our freedom and liberty, from those who threaten to destroy what our forefathers established so long ago. This is the greatness of what our country was molded from since its beginnings, those farmers who took arms to stand up for their freedom. A group of Hero’s is what established our freedom from the very beginning of this country and through history.

 A standard dictionary definition of a hero:

HERO

he·ro

ˈhirō/

noun

1. A  person, typically a man, who is admired or idealized for courage, outstanding achievements, or noble qualities.

1. “a war hero”

   synonyms: brave person, brave man/woman, man/woman of courage,man/woman of the hour, lionheart, warrior, knight, champion, victor, conqueror.

   What is your definition of a hero?

   Throughout this wonderful United States of America there are countless amounts of veterans who deserve to be recognized as Hero’s for just simply serving in our Military. Not all veterans have faced the challenge of actually going to war or combat as shown in the photo below but should still be recognized as hero’s, just because they are soldiers. Soldiers prepared for the day they are called in to battle.

   I am fortunate in being a part of a small community in which I live and work. Having pretty much grown up at our local coffee shop it’s been my privilege to work among and get to know such greatness as these local hero’s.

   I’m certain that every town in America has or has had at least one hometown hero who’s served this country in an amazing way. Personal stories to be shared, handed down from generation to generation. A handshake and a thank you to a veteran or just simply listening to their experience  goes a long way. Take a moment to find out about your local veterans and take a few more minutes of your time to ask them about their experiences as a soldier.

   One of our home town hero’s here in Watervliet is a man named Glen Oppeneer, Corky for short. Corky was pictured in Life magazine in 1966 as shown below and in the featured image. As you can see he lived experiences in battle that I could never even imagine if it weren’t for his stories told firsthand.

Corky Openeer 1966

With this post I want to thank Corky for being that hero during Vietnam and I would also like to thank Ed and Mac for being hero’s of WWII.  I admire you for the amazing individuals that you are with amazing stories to tell. Your contribution of service in the military is something to be admired respected and you are great examples of what the people of this countryare made of. Without brave men and women like you we wouldn’t be FREE.

Corky 2013

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#veteran #veteransday

Easy garlic pasta

Easy garlic chicken pasta for dinner. That's what's up. I use the rotini noodles because it's easier for my grandson to pick it up with his little fingers.
What you need
2 teaspoon olive oil
4 cloves garlic, minced
2 tablespoons butter
1/4 teaspoon salt
1/2 teaspoon pepper
3 cups chicken broth,
plus a little extra
1/2 pound spaghetti
1 cup grated Parmesan cheese
3/4 cup heavy cream
1 1/2 tablespoons dried parsley

In a medium pan, heat olive oil over medium heat.  Add the garlic and stir for 1-2 minutes.  Add butter and melt, stirring constantly.  Add salt, pepper, and 3 cups chicken broth.  Bring to a boil.  Add the pasta and cook according to box directions.  Add a little more chicken broth if the noodles start to stick to the bottom and burn.  Add the cheese, cream, and parsley when the pasta is cooked to your desired tenderness and mix thoroughly.  Serve immediately. 
Add chicken or broccoli if you like. 

#pastarecipes #easygarlicpasta   #spagetti   #feedyoursoul  

The Gift

A wonderful Christmas gift was delivered last night. The neatly wrapped gift took us all completely by surprise. I really had no idea what would be in the little package. This memorabilia of Lee has traveled the world, and has even been through war. For eleven years it has been gently and lovingly cared for by his best friend as only a true caring friend would do. Just looking at it you can see how well it's journeyed, it looks just as good as the day it left. Josh simply said that he felt it was time for this to return home to be with its family.

Thank you Josh for taking care of it for these years, to me this was the best Christmas surprise and I couldn't have asked for anything more.

To me this is what Christmas is all about.

Quote You

Today I'm going to quote someone who had to leave in order for me to grow.

I have found the courage to face my emotional responsibilities I've gained 

new insight which purifies the spirit with charity and truth. This past year I've

learned that there's definitely something to sacrificing the negative emotional past. 

Lifting the spirit to expand influence with the intent to help others who have the same

problems of emotional indifference to their personal freedom. This is what I've learned.

So what'dya know? 

My self discovery has been an interesting journey. A great teacher once told me that

my journey in this lifetime would require me to find love without losing myself. Now I know

what that meant.

I never realized how quickly I sense the energy of others, hence picking up on

the energy of Martin Luther King Jr. for example.

This learning has now become fun as I sort through all the journal notes, 

separate what I now know to be "others energy" and in this separateness I define me.